Google+/Google Talk
host: talk.google.com port: 5222 service: gmail.com security: enable TLS, disable SASL
Facebook chat
host: chat.facebook.com port: 5222 service: chat.facebook.com security: disable TLS, enable SASL userid: you cannot use your email address. you will have to set a username at your facebook account and use that here.
Jabber.org
host: jabber.org port: 5222 service: jabber.org security: enable TLS, enable SASL